Tuesday, May 30, 2006
Since the day of this tragedy, I have been very intuitive. I knew 5 minutes before the phone call that something was wrong. I have convinced Bob that I might even be phsycic. I should learn to start trusting myself and just go with my instincts. I have felt for quite a few days that Molly knew that her leg was gone. Today, with the urging of Lori her "nurse in shining armor", we told Molly about her injuries. I don't know how much she will remember of what was said, but the next time won't be quite so gut wrenching. The day she cries is the day I know that the true healing will begin. My heart goes out to every parent, spouse, friend or relative who has ever had to be in this position.
Today the doctor ordered the ventilator out of Molly's room. She is breathing all on her own now, but still has the trach tube in for more surgeries. She should be able to talk to us in a couple of days. Her fever broke for a while and that was great.
Today was a good day. Katy, we love you so much. We are so glad you were there with us. Marci and Jimmy, thank you.
Good night my sweet girls and God bless! Love you.
Today the doctor ordered the ventilator out of Molly's room. She is breathing all on her own now, but still has the trach tube in for more surgeries. She should be able to talk to us in a couple of days. Her fever broke for a while and that was great.
Today was a good day. Katy, we love you so much. We are so glad you were there with us. Marci and Jimmy, thank you.
Good night my sweet girls and God bless! Love you.
posted by Molly's Page at 10:20 PM
27 Comments:
My thoughts are with you each day. I have had a hard time thinking about the day that you share the news with Molly. I know that must have been a very difficult time. It is hard to remember but it is the baby steps that add up to big steps that add up to leaps and bounds. I look forward to the days when all three of you are eager for visitors and we can all spend more time with you all. Each baby step is a battle won. We are all here for you.
Tim B.
Dear Bernie, Bobby and Katy,
Rachel and Spence surprised me at work today. We had a great visit together. We gathered together in a circle with Joan and a few friends, holding hands, overlooking the mighty Pacific, and sent pure love to Molly. It was powerful and soothing. We pray she received.
Robin and Lucy
xo
My thoughts and prayers are always with you all and Molly.
-Leah
I'm praying for your family.
Amy
GOD BLESS & CONTINUE BE WITH YOU ALL, MY LOVE & PRAYERS TO ALL OF YOU!
Hello Bob and Bernie, I want you to know that my heart goes out to you today. God will be with you in this journey. Breathing on her own is a big step right now. Bob, you will dance with Molly at her wedding. Please continue to be the rock you are for my good friend Bernie.
Speaking of weddings, a friend of mine just went to a jewish wedding and was impressed that the bride broke a glass by stepping on it at the reception. It was a tradition of some sort. I say big deal. A month ago I went to an irish wedding. They broke glasses, bottles, windows, mirrors, a couple of ceiling fans, and the bands instruments. That also is a tradition. Denver Bob
Dear Blooms:
We are happy to hear that Molly is doing better, but I am sure that is was difficult telling her about her injury. The strength that you have both shown will help Molly more than anything. She is a strong, intelligent and caring young woman and that is because of her family. We continue to think about you often and are sending thoughts and prayers your way.
The Fruhwirth;s
Loren, Jill, Jeff and Jessica
I login every day to get the latest on Molly and to read all the wonderful things people from all over this big world of ours leave for your comfort, for your smile, and mostly just for strength.
Each day will get easier, no matter it's struggle... Remember all the good thoughts out here being sent your way. Have a good day........
One day....long long ago, I woke up in a hospital room with tubes coming out of me, machines beeping and several medical type people hovering over me. That was the first day of the rest of my life, without any feeling from the waist down. Very dark times prevailed as I groped to learn a new path, a new way of living. Many many days were spent in deep deep depression feeling sorry for myself and angry at everybody.
The difference between me and Molly, she has an incredibly supportive family, and people all over the world, pulling for her and standing up for her now. THAT alone will (is) the best thing that anyone can do for Molly right now, just be there for her. You'll figure out the days to come as they get here. There WILL be a life for you all in the near future, and it CAN be a good one too, and though it took some time, I'm happy to say I'm a mother of 2 with a fabulous husband and a good life. I will always remain in a wheel chair, but I go any place I want and I have my brain...... Peace and love to you all. Hang in there, the days will get better.
Bob and Bernie,
Thinking of you so much each day! You both are such great parents and I have learned alot from both of you during your journey with your daughter Molly and even Katy who I have never met...you have been so there for your sister, keep up the good work all of you! I am so glad to hear of Molly's progression, keep on truckin' Molly! God Bless You! Julie Caldwell
Dear Blooms,
As they say, the longest journey begins with the first step - and while you've been making steps all along the way, Molly breathing on her own is a major step! Congratulations!
Another thing to be reminded of, it's not the easy things in life that build and mold us to become the strong, contributing individuals we are. Each of you will be beacons of light to others as you ALL go through your lives because of going through this tragic situation. I applaud and respect you all very much!
I also love reading Denver Bob's comments - he makes me laugh as I hope he brings laughter to you at this time - it's so important. Keep doing what you're doing Blooms! Susan O.
Any child with parents like you and a sister like Katie will have all she needs to be whatever she wants in this world. I check in first thing each day to see how you all are doing - I knew the staff at Denver General would help. As I wipe away my tears this morning I am relieved that this small burden is lifted. Each day a little more progress. You are doing everything right and with great eloquence and courage. Stay the course. God Bless you all.
I'm a DPS teacher and a mother of two middle school boys. Just wanted you to know that we are praying for Molly and for your family every day. We pray for healing for Molly, for strength, hope, peace, and joy for all of you. May God's presence and richest blessings be with your family as you travel down this road.
Keep on keepin on Blooms - the days will get easier. Thanks Denver Bob for your daily dose of smiles. Another day, you're all in my thoughts and prayers......
Dear Molly and her family,
My family and I are NYC-area friends of Adrienne Sweetwater and her family, who have told us about your accident and your brave ongoing recovery. We now join the many, many people cheering you on with supportive thoughts, prayers, and meditation. We wish you every possible blessing.
Ed M., Maplewood NJ
GO MOLLY GO! GO MOLLY GO!!!!
Girl, i know you can do this, i know the shock may seem too much, but i believe in you, and i believe in your family. we are all by your side, cheering you on, so GO AND KICK SOME @$$!!!
Keep smiling, please, never put that beautiful grin to rest.
GO GO GO!!!!
I love you
I know I've already written a comment that was exactly like this one is going to be but oh well. I just wanted to say again that you guys are the greatest. Watching you today I was again impressed with your strength and courage. no parents could be doing a better job. you both are so awesome i can barely find the adjectives to describe you. keep up the amazing work. you guys are the best!!
~katie h.
ps. i saw ANOTHER mullet on the way home. that is two times this week. good sign.
Hello, My name is Mariah Lopez-Martin I just want to send my wishes to Molly. I had actually heard about what happened to molly from my bus driver aid. I will write you as often as I can to see how Molly is doing
Dear Bloom Family,
I am a mother of a senior at East. I read the blogs everyday to see how you are all doing, your story has touched me and I’m amazed at your courage and strength. My daughter is a life-guard and will be donating her time to guard for the Molly Bloom Swim-A-Thon. I wish we could do more, please know that my heart and prayers go out to you all. My mother's intuition tells me that Molly is going to turn this tragedy into a lifetime of positive contributions. Stay strong Bloom family.
Julie S.
To Molly and the Bloom Family,
I am an East High School parent who has been logging on every day to check on Molly's progress. Our family has been praying for you and cheering Molly's small successes. All of the possible messages I've been writing in my head seem so inadequate, so I haven't written. I'm sure there are many others like us, who update our friends and family on Molly's progress and wonder throughout the day what the next 24 hours will bring for your family. As our busy lives go on outside the hospital doors, and spring turns to summer, know that there are hundreds, probably thousands, of people weaving a web of invisible support for Molly and your family. May God Bless and Keep You Close in the Coming Weeks.
CONGRATULATIONS!!!! Molly breathing on her own is a huge progress!!!! Everyday I check on Molly's progress and we are constantly thinking about what you ALL are going through.
I was talking to my son that had classes at East with Molly and he says "Molly is a strong person and will live a normal life"!!! He knows that she will be tough and win all the fights she has ahead of her!!!
You ALL are in our thoughts and prayers. Continue being strong, not only for Molly, but for each other as a family. GOD BLESS YOU ALL.
Where can we get more info on the Molly Bloom swiw a thon?? we would like to help.
Molly,
We love you. You are always in our prayers.
Jay, Michelle, Linz, Jocie, JT, Rachel
Bob, Bernie, Katy,
You are doing a fabulous job.
Still us
I thought about writing a joke, like Denver Bob, but I only know off-color jokes. Oh well. But, maybe...
This old guy goes into the confessional at church. "Father, I was in a bar last night and I met these twins. Well, wouldn't you know it, they invited me over to their place. And Father, we did it all."
"Well my son. You will have to say threee Hail Mary's for your sin."
"But, why Father? I am Jewish."
"Jewish? Then why are you telling me your tale?"
"Telling you? I'm telling everybody!"
Way to go, Molly! Just wanted to let you know that I'm still thinking of you (and Mr. Taylor is too!) and cheering for each bit of progress you make in recovery. We hope to visit you soon.
Jess Taylor
Hoo Rah!!! You go girl! We are all so proud of you. You're so incredibly strong (I'm telling you it's all that swimming:)) that there was never really any doubt that you would beat the crap out of all the odds. Molly, I've been cheering you on for so many years in the pool I am heartily convinced that YOU CAN DO ANYTHING. Your contagious sense of humor (which by the way you inherited from your wonderfully crazy parents) will most certainly help. We are praying, pulling, and loudly cheering for you all!
Swim-a-thon info will be available soon on this very bat channel ~ stay tuned.
Loving you all tons and buckets,
The O'Neil Clan
Molly you don't know me. My granddaughter went to school with you. Kate McDonald. I am so sorry to hear of your accident. I just want you to know that I am praying for you, Put all your trust and faith in Jesus the great Healer. He will see you through this time. He has special plans for you. love & prayers
Molly, Bernie, Bob, and Katy,
So thrilled to hear that Molly's surgery has taken, and she's healing well!
Molly, as soon as you're allowed to move, keep at it with those leg exercises. The sooner you get your strength and muscle back the quicker the rehab will go.
I'm leaving for Oregon today, but I'll try to keep in touch while I'm away. Keep up the great healing Molly...you'll be walking (and dancing) sooner that you think!
Take care Molly. I'll give you a call when I return in July.
Love to you all,
Martha
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