Saturday, June 03, 2006

Saturday, June 3, 2006

Today started out so scary. Molly had two procedures done, which is hospitalese for surgery without anesthesia, which left her in the ozone. She couldn't focus, didn't know who was whom, couldn't raise her arms. We were afraid we were losing her emotionally, because she was crying. Once the sedatives wore off, though, she was very lucid and was working hard doing her exercises and trying to talk. What a soldier! I am learning so much from her. She has shown us what it means to face a challenge and not quit. She truly is super Molly. The doctors are finding sources of infection and trying to eliminate them. She seems to get a little stronger, physically every day, but we are so worried about her emotional state. For the first time since this gruesome tragedy, Bob and I split up so that we could stay with her around the clock. This was a very hard day.
To my cousin Kayle and all the wonderful people in Borrego Springs, CA, thank you for the prayer quilt. When Molly is ready, the significance of this will strike her and give her hope to continue her struggle. Actually, that goes for all of the kindnesses that everyone has bestowed upon us from everywhere. We have shopping bags full of cards and letters. I came home to a stack of cards, letters, notes, and receipts from Chris at Colorado State Bank from donations to Molly's recovery fund. As I have gotten older, I have become somewhat cinical. I feel completely humbled by all the love and support that has come our way. Thank all of you!!
Katy, once again, you made our day. Thank you.
Good night my amazing family. I love you. See you in the morning.

19 Comments:

Anonymous Anonymous said...

What a trooper Molly is. She is an inspiration for us all. You are on the right path ..... baby steps. Hang in there. I am sorry I missed your call today Bob but as you know anytime, anything. Hang in there.

12:58 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I don't know Molly, but as my two sons are both at prom this evening in San Diego, I read Molly's story. My heart goes out to you as well as my prayers for her recovery. Parents' concerns are universal and I will follow Molly's recovery. I am certain she will recover.

1:06 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

MAY GOD CONTIUE TO BLESS ALL OF YOU & MAY THINGS KEEP LOOKING UP & CONTINUE GETTING BETTER. TO MOLLY'S PARENTS, YES YOUR FAMILY IS AMAZING & KATY IS AMAZING, BUT DON'T LEAVE YOURSELF'S OUT, YOU TWO ARE AMAZING ALSO. YOUR CHILDREN ARE AMAZING,BECAUSE YOU TWO WERE AMAZING TO START WITH! TAKE CREDIT WHERE IT IS DUE! ALL MY LOVE & PRAYERS FROM LA.

4:15 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Hello Bob, Bernie, Katy, and Molly, WOW, what a tough kid you have there. Molly is a true Winner. I am so glad to hear she is getting better each day. She will get through this, and really do something special with her life.
I have to tell you of my oldest son, who graduated from the U of M with a degree in liberal arts 6 months ago. He found a job last week. After 5 years, and thousands of dollars, he took that liberal arts degree and found a job. I am so proud of him. I went down where he works yesterday to check it out. He seems to be doing well, but he got my order wrong. I wanted the "biggie" fries, but he gave me the regular fries. I didn't say anything to the manager because I didn't want to get him in trouble. Stay strong and stay cool. Denver Bob.

5:08 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

The Bloom Family, We don't know each other but your story has touched me. I look forward to your updates before I go to bed at night and when they are late in coming like last night I worry. I am the mother of 3 daughters so I have a lot of practice in that area. Molly sounds like a strong, courageous and smart young lady. I am sure Molly is in an emotionally fragile state of mind right now who wouldn't be. Molly will encounter a lot "firsts" along her journey to recovery, some good, some not so good but all being a necessary part of the recovery process. Hang in there kiddo you are doing great, and you not only have the loving physical support of your family and friends but the support of your community in spirit as well. God Bless, Amy

7:45 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

keep up the good work miss molly! im so happy to hear that things are getting better. i miss you and love you, and will hopefully see you soon.

as for uncle bobby, aunt bernie, and katyyyy, i miss and love you too. im so glad to have you guys as my family, and i admire your guys' strength and courage.

give molly a big hug for me please.


xoxoxoxoxoxo

love, jilly

8:08 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Molly,
I am so glad to hear you are doing better. You are an amazing person and I look up to you and admire all of you strength, courage,good humor and beautiful personality. I am thinking about you. Continue to recover, you will do amazing things with your future. Hang in there!

9:11 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Hey Molly,good to see you are improving. Keep up the good work.Me and Ginger(my cat) are pulling for you. Take care Molly and remember we all are pulling for you......charlie and Ginger the Cat.

9:14 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

sounds like you had a rough day yesterday. I am praying for a better one today. After having the prvilage of watching your family over these 20 odd years I can frankly state, categorically, that you will triumph over this.

XOXOXOXO Jamie

9:18 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Dear Molly,
Yesterday, I heard your voice for the first time since this happened. What joy I felt. I can't even begin to imagine what your mom and dad felt when they heard you several days ago. I do know it was the first time since that terrible night I've seen your dad smile. Please remember that even though there will be set backs on this road, every moment is still a step forward. Everyone that loves you will be going with you. It isn't just our duty or responsibility, but our priviledge and honor to help you reach every goal you set. Some day soon, I'm looking forward to being with you on a day you're really you and not the pre or post procedure person. Just poor timing on my part, but I do it for your folks right now.

Bernie & Bob you two are amazing. Tried to clear away some dust bunnies for you--they ran screaming. Next time--they're toast.

Katy, I love you and I say this with lots of love. GET A HELMET NOW.

To the Borrego Springs quilters
The prayer quilt is beautiful and the love that came with it is beyond priceless. My thanks to you all.
Molly and Katy's aunt
Peggy

10:05 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I knew it, I knew it! wohoo! you are so great- come back to me soon! (or maybe I'll come to you!) waaahooo- i love you
ps i went to kent prom last night and everyone there was asking about you miss popular! and i almost told them you were really just a crazy foo with nothing to lose- but instead i said about how beautiful and crazy you are inside and out. lordy, lets have fun in the habitat soon!
I love you so so much -James

10:54 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

let us know when she is ready to have visitors....we all want to see her but nobody wants to intrude or make her have to visit when she isn't ready....we check everyday and we all know that she can do this....if anybody can...she can...you are all fabulous!.....melody

12:35 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

My daughter, Lacey, and I would like to offer our support to Molly and her family. Lacey attends Regis Jesuit High School and will be a senior and will graduate 2007. Lacey is an above knee amputee, losing her leg to cancer. She and I are available to help with explain how being an amputee has affected her life as a teenager and young adult. Please know that we are here for anyone who might need support. Hugs and prayers.
Linda Henderson
lhenderson@regisjesuit.com

12:41 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

At this rate Molly, you just might be in CU next year at this time.
Yes, life for you has changed, but the most fabulous thing, your life and mind are still in tact waiting for you to explore them. It looks like neither your brain or your life have long to wait now...... GO FOR IT MOLLY.

1:39 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Molly and Family,
Not a day goes by that I don't think about you all. I sent you a letter to the hospital Friday, June 2. You should get it by Monday at the latest? I look forward to meeting all of you and reassuring you that Molly has a bright and exciting future...I know that's hard to believe now with her daily struggle, but you all will endure and flourish from this horrible experience. Hang in there, we're all rooting for you and sending lots of love and prayers. Give me a call when you're ready.
Martha Hill Gaskill

1:59 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Hi Bernie & Bob,
My name is Beth Polevoi and I am Robin Secher's cousin in Chicago. I met you and Molly a few years ago when I was in Denver. I am so sorry abou tthis horrible accident. I've been on the blogpage a few times and wanted to tell you my thoughts and prayers are with you.
Love,
Beth

2:38 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

"let's have fun in the habitat"... what does THAT mean?
Well whatever, Molly, you sure have a lot of people who love you and are praying for you. Me too.

3:20 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

molly,
i love you so much and i am so proud of you. it was great to be with you today and i as i told you...this whole thing sucks but know that as you walk this path, we are right there beside you...ok...maybe across the street :)
i want to thank mallory, cindy and jim as well because they are and will be your anchors getting through this.
we love you, katy, and your parents and can't wait till you can chase josh around the house again for a good game of hide and seek.
see you soon.
lots of love,
marci and josh too

6:02 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Molly, I saw you today, and it amazes me that even in this situation you are still so beautiful. I love you.

6:10 PM  

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