Monday, July 24, 2006

Monday July 24, 2006

Every time I start to get down and think about how bad Molly's injuries are, someone comes from out of nowhere to remind me that she still has a full life ahead of her with a lot of time and work. Thank you Mary, Christina, Martha, Mallory, and all the other life victims who have so graciously given their time and help to us and to Molly. I am convinced that there is some divine intervention at work here taking us down a path I never even imagined existed. I just pray that we remain on this path. I don't think it is a coincidence that the East High mascot is an Angel. Today was a good day.
Molly sat in a chair today and worked on balance. She just seems to get it. She still has miles to go, but she is a trooper. She spent over an hour outside this afternoon hoping it would rain on her. It didn't. When was the last time you wished you could feel raindrops on your face? The little things we take for granted can be so huge when you have been denied them for so long. Stopping to smell the flowers has always been important to me, but that expression has taken on a whole new meaning.
Tomorrow the Teen Recreation Therapist is planning a smoothie party for Molly and her friends. Children's Hospital has kept Molly very busy, entertained, and happy. What a cool place! They should have children's activities for all the grownups in all the hospitals. We are so glad she is here now. Every new step of this nightmare has been a positive one. Once again, I want to thank everyone at Denver Health, Presbyterian/St. Lukes, and now Children's for taking such good care of Molly and us as well. Bless all of you (especially you Sally B).
Denver Bob: Stephanie (Molly's night nurse) from Children's will be in your neck of the woods for 2 weeks. She thinks you are great. I told her to look you up to say "Hi!".
Katy and Molly, sweet dreams my precious girls. Bob, I love you.

19 Comments:

Anonymous Anonymous said...

Glad Molly got to go outside. Being stuck in a hospital room all day makes it hard. When my son spends time in the hospital he seems so down but once he sees the sun and blues sky he gets the biggest smile on his face. He can't talk but I know what he is thinking. Yah, we are going home and hopefully soon Molly will be saying those same words. Prays from South Dakota.

2:03 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Bernie, you and Molly are truly amazing, strong women. My thoughts and prayers are with you from NC. -- Kat

6:26 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

You guys are doing great! Hey, I talked to my folks on the phone last night and my dad, an old farm-hand, reminded me of his friend, the farmer.

Well, one day the farmer's old donkey fell down into a well. The farmer tried to figure out what to do. Finally, he decided Hey, the animal was old, and the well needed to be covered up anyway; it just wasn't worth it to retrieve that old donkey.

So, he invited all the neighbors to come over with their shovels and help him. They all began to shovel dirt into the well. At first, the donkey hee-hawed like crazy. Then, he quieted down.

A few shovel loads later, the farmer finally looked down the well. He was astonished at what he saw. With each shovel of dirt that hit his back, the donkey was doing something amazing. He would shake it off and take a step up.

As the neighbors continued to shovel dirt on top of the animal, he would shake it off and take a step up. Pretty soon, everyone was amazed as the donkey stepped up over the edge of the well and happily trotted off!

Life is going to shovel dirt on you, all kinds of dirt. The trick to getting out of the well is to shake it off and take a step up. Each of our troubles is a steppingstone. We can get out of the deepest wells just by not stopping, never giving up! Shake it off and take a step up.

So there you have it, an old farm story. Have a great day!!

7:49 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Hey Molly,

I am soooooo happy that things are moving so fast for you. Your determination is so strong Molly, keep up the awesome work.

AF

8:04 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Bernie,
Thank you once again for taking the time to share with us what you are going through. I am so happy to hear that you are all being treated so well and that everyone is sharing their love with Molly and with you all. Sometimes, it is easy to lose faith in the good in people and then there are times when their good simply shines through! I am so happy that you all, who are so deserving are reaping the benefits of the good in people - especially when the bad in people/person is what has you in this situation to begin with. I am so proud to see that you all manage to maintain a positive outlook on life and on what will transpire for Molly.
One thing to remember is that no matter the changes and the differences that Molly's life will take - you all have something amazing and that is each other.

Continue to take good care of our girl and of her mother!

All the love in the world!
Joni

8:43 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Bloom Family-
I have been following Molly's progress since I first learned of the ordeal on CNN's website about a week ago. I just want to let Molly know that she is in my prayers. She has became an inspiration for so many, including myself. Her desire and commitment is a beautiful thing. She will again regain the normalities in life that we all take for granted. Like others, I appreciate being able to keep up with her progress online, as she has touched my heart and my life. Take care, stay strong, rely on God.

9:05 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Molly,
I am sooooooooooooo very happy for you that you have stayed strong throughout this whole ordeal. You are a real inspiration to all. I hope that you can go home from the hospital soon. It cannot be fun stuck in a hospital. I hope that it rains for you so that you can feel the raindrops on your face. That will be a real calming thing for you right now.
Keep up the positive attitude. Keep fighting!!! I know that you will be better really soon.
Your mom is right, East High is the Angels for a real purpose. We all have angels watching over us.

Sincerely,

An East High Teacher

10:19 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Never give up.

Every time you give up, start again.

Every time you look back at all times you gave up, forgive yourself and keep going.

Never forget how much your striving has inspired others.

Never give up.

10:28 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

The information on the ED Walker was very interesting- the part about alignment and balance are so right. Balance is so crucial. Keep fine-tuning whatever device you find until it is just right for you. It will be worth the pain and effort.

11:13 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Bernie, Bob, Katy and Molly,
You are well on your way to healing in many areas I smile when ever I think of how far you have each come. Your family is a small miracle and an inspiration. Bernie and Bob you are parents of grit, determination and love. You each have such gifts to give your girls and their character shows how well you have loved. Katy stood by and is always there for each of you with the grace seldom seen in one her age. Molly is the most persistant, (Stubborn?) teen I have seen in a long while and even when things were as dark as they could get and we all despaired she would not give up. My job is often difficult but working with you and Molly, as bad as things were, was ultimately a blessing and I am glad that even though life has changed it will go on and go on well. I often told you that Molly seemed to be the type of kid that would take this tragedy and make an amazing life out of the ashes. She is well on her way. Bob and Bernie you can smile with hope and even though the road is yet long and Molly will carry most of that weight you have taught her well. I hope from now on it will be more hills than valleys and I am sure she will continue to amaze all of us with her life. Be well and come see us someday. A blonde Shalom !! Sally B

11:37 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Hello Bob, Bernie, Katy, and Molly,
You are on the right path for sure. I believe that God is looking out for all of you, and has big plans for Molly. Getting outside must really be a big treat right now. It is so cool to hear Molly is positive. May God continue to bless you.
I have to tell you of my Aunt and Uncle who just retired. The other day they went into town and walked in a shop. They were only in there for about 5 muinutes, but when they came out a cop was writing a ticket. My Uncle went up to him and said, "Come on man, how about giving a senior citizen a break?" The cop ignored him and continued to write the ticket. So my Uncle called him a turd. The cop glared at him and started writing another ticket for worn tires. So my Aunt called him a sh#thead. The cop finished writing the second ticket, put it on the windshield with the first, and started writing a third. This went on for about 20 minutes. The more they abused him the more tickets he wrote. Personally, they didn't care. They came into town by bus. They just try to have a little fun each and every day now that they're retired. My Uncle says it's important at their age.
Stay strong and stay cool,
Denver Bob

11:38 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Molly,
I have been following your story since I read about it on CNN last week. I was truly touched by your strengths and all your dedication and your will to heal. You have a tremendous amount of people that are thinking about you and praying for you, including myself, my family and my friends. Everyday I read the blog to check up on your progress. I feel like I know you from the wonderful writting your mom places on your blog each evening. You are truly an inspiration to all the people out there. You are strong and I just know you are a miracle. Your family is lucky to have such a wonderful daughter like you.

I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers.

Shannon C from Texas

12:20 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Dear Bloom family,
I just came across this website today and I am truly inspired by Molly's story; her courage and your selflessness & hope in a situation such as this is amazing. I am a young athlete myself and I can only begin to imagine what it would be like to be physically restrained from doing the sports that you live for. I am in awe of Molly's zest for life and how she is conquering this battle, even if it is one step at a time. Your words on this website are so moving. I don't think she could be getting through this without the incredible suport you have been giving her. My thoughts and prayers go out to you and Molly. By the sounds of it, Molly will be back in the water and on the ski hill one day. Conceive, believe, achieve.

1:18 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

good golly miss molly you amaze me. and i love you to pieces. i really wanna come see you...and soon, cuz that would make me happy, and i hope it would make you happy too. and we both know what i really wanna do...hehehe. hang in there, and keep up the good work. you are beautiful, and i love you.

xoxo,
jilly

4:18 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Molly,

I'm so happy that your progressing so well. I've followed your story since I first read about your accident in the paper, and I love your blog and being able to keep track of how you're doing. I always pray for you. I wanted to share with you a poem I found many years ago:
"Greet every day with gladness, when first you see the light. There is no need for sadness, you made it through the night. The day may not be perfect, the sky may not be blue. But God will walk beside you, and help you see it through. Don't fret about tomorrow, just do your best today. For sunshine follows sorrow, as blue skies follow gray. Greet every day with gladness, as if it were a friend. There may be a blessing waiting, somewhere around the bend."

Stay strong, and keep your spirits up.

8:17 PM  
Blogger Susan said...

Thanks for keeping the blog, with Molly's progress. I come every day to read how she's doing. It's great she got to spend so long outside!

9:27 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Molly, I believe that God shines a lamp before our feet and a light unto our path. I know you can't possibly fathom where your path will lead you at this point, but I trust that he will lead you step-by-step and that great things are ahead. We are all living moment-to-moment, and it is in those moments that we find joy. Keep your face turned toward the heavens and the rain will cleanse your tears. Becky & Jane

9:50 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

every time i read this blog it makes me smile to know that molly keeps making progress. i am so very happy for how wonderfully she is dealing with a tragic situation that she was literally thrown into. i hope she has plenty of days outside

10:40 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

My prayers and thoughts are with your family and Molly. I read the blog from the beginning and wanted to ask: does Molly have good pain management? I dearly hope they are helping her in that area. I lost a limb to osteosarcoma and I remember how grateful I was to have such good medicine to manage that.
Best
Lynne

2:51 AM  

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