Thursday, June 15, 2006
Today felt like a good day for Molly and a day of fear for Bob and me. The physical therapists had Molly bearing weight on her leg and she looked like she was very happy about that. Channel 4 aired an interview with the 3 other girls from the East 400 free relay team that swam at state with Molly as the fourth. They are Team Dominate the Mullet for the swim-a-thon. They all came to Molly's room to watch themselves on TV. Molly actually smiled a lot during the piece. To us, it was very disturbing that this even has to be. Sometimes, it is tough to wrap your mind around "there's no going back." But, we want to thank Molly Hughes for the nice piece she did. We hope we can get some video of the swim-a-thon for Molly to watch when she is ready. She is trying so hard to be strong and I don't know if she really feels that, or if she is just reacting to all the encouragement she gets daily. I wish she could tell us.
Laurie Shook, a former South High science teacher and amputee came to see Molly today to give her some hope for skiing again. Thank you Laurie. Martha, we will call when we feel the time is right. Thanks for blogging on and keep the encouraging words flowing.
Once again, we want to thank Dave, D. Ray, Cindy, Karen, and everyone else who helped organize the swim-a-thon. We hope it is a huge success and tons of fun! Katy, as always, we love you very much. You make Molly happy.
Good night sweet girls. Love you. See you in the morning.
Laurie Shook, a former South High science teacher and amputee came to see Molly today to give her some hope for skiing again. Thank you Laurie. Martha, we will call when we feel the time is right. Thanks for blogging on and keep the encouraging words flowing.
Once again, we want to thank Dave, D. Ray, Cindy, Karen, and everyone else who helped organize the swim-a-thon. We hope it is a huge success and tons of fun! Katy, as always, we love you very much. You make Molly happy.
Good night sweet girls. Love you. See you in the morning.
posted by Molly's Page at 7:01 PM
27 Comments:
i am so glad that you set this blog up!
it is great to be abole to hear how Molly has been doing. She seeems like a truly strong and amazing person.
i hope that the swim-a-thon goes well!
remember:
as i've said before,
Be like the birds,
sing after every storm/
know that you are surrounded by love and good thoughts.
love,
a Friend
Dear Bloom family,
We are all still here for you guys. Everyone is supporing you. Stay strong, you will all come though this alright. I know that this is a hard time for you, but things will get better! We love you all and are always thinking of you!
Dear Molly, Bernie, Bob, and Katy,
Just wanted you to know that Dina was asking about Molly today. She's dealing with the heat, humidity, and southern hospitality at camp in Mississippi, and doesn't get much computer access. (As an aside, I still need to sing the old song to spell that state's name correctly!)
We are all pulling for you. It is certainly a roller coaster ride - full of ups and downs, emotionally and physically. We can only hope that the ups outnumber the downs!
Our best as always. The news articles on tv and on the web postings were quite nice today.
On yesterday's discussion, we can only hope the legal proceedings move along with proper discipline and speed.
The Rouffs
Blooms all,
Keep your eyes on the prize, and don't ever give up. You all are amazing, truly amazing. We love you and are "pulling" (and kicking) for you. I can't wait to come see you next week when things are a little more calm for me. Meanwhile, please know that we are loving you from afar.
Tons and Buckets,
Cindy
I know we can't imagine what you are all going through but it is so nice of you to share your updates and feelings with us each day. It is hard for all of us to not think of the past. We all have such wonderful memories of Molly. But we all hope that the encouragement and support will help you look forward and help you all keep believing. You gotta believe. This is no news to you but Molly is amazing. She always has been and she always will be. It was so nice to hear that Molly was supporting her weight today. There will be lots of ups and downs but the big picture is that Molly is amazing. Gee I wonder where she got it from?
Baby steps.
Molly,
I just want you to know that even in Germany people are praying for you. I am in the military and when I read a story about you on CNN I have prayed everyday and read these blogs everyday. Everyone I work with has you in our hearts.
s. alexander
Bernie, I thought of Molly after seeing this quote in the British paper, "The Guardian" this a.m.
Steven Hawking "You can't afford to be disabled in spirit as well as physically," he said. "People won't have time for you."
Don't let anger get in the way of your true spirit...the love you have for Molly.
The rest will sort it self out.
Remember I have my pumps handy and I am ready to get the tiara whenever you ask.
Love to all
Paul
Sail on silver girl, sail on by!
Your time has come- to SHINE! All your dreams are on their way! See How They SHINE!! Oh, if you every need a friend, I'm sailing right behind- Like a bridge over troubled water, I will ease your mind.
I love you! I will be in tommorrow. I'm bringing games!
It was good to see the DA's office respond yesterday. You have been a powerful advocate for Molly.
Looking forward to helping with the swim-a-thon. I also call on everyone to give generously to Molly's Recovery Fund. I can't think of a better use for a charitable contribution.
Wishing your family all good things possible,
East High Mom
I have never had the opportunity to know the Bloom family, but as a mother, I am hoping and praying for Molly's recovery. I'm just a mother that is concerned about Molly, how this happened, and what steps need to be taken to prevent this from every happening to any of our children again. I am amazed at Molly's strength and her inspiration. I have learned from her to never take anything for granted. Little things, like how hot it is, or traffic, seem so petty now. She has taught me through her story that those dishes can be done later, to go watch my children play. See the innocence in their eyes and the amazing things they see. What we see as a ladybug, they will see as a beautiful, flying creature with interesting colors. Thank you for sharing this website for everyone.
Bob, Bernie, Molly, And Katy,
We want you to know that our prayers are with you. We have started a prayer circle on Beliefnet.com.Anything you need or want do not hestiate. Stay strong things will get better! God Bless!
Joe and Susan
Molly,
They say denial is the first start of the healing process. That is ok. People always ask Why me? What could I have done different? Why didn't I get into the car first? Don't worry sweetie people go through that. You are going to go through alot in the next couple of years but with the support system you have right now. I don't think you will have any problems getting through this. You have a wonderful mother who, by what I have been reading on your blog is your biggest fan. We are all your biggest fans and we want you to get better so you can be that great swimmer again. I hope to see you do great things in your life. And please remember that even though you are very angry right now with what happened, god has a special plan for you. Please just let him lead you down your path.
Love From Wyoming
Dear Blooms,
When I read Wed's blog - my heart just went out to you Bernie. I just wanted to wrap my arms around you, to rock you and tell you everything wd be ok. But in talking to Lesly - I know I'm trying to make it better for you - and I can't - nor can anyone else. Unfortunately, you, Bob, Katy and Dear Ms. Molly - each have to go through this horrible tradegy on your own. Of course, with the support of one another and people from all over the world that send you prayers and positive energy daily, but you each have to deal with it the best way you can.
And that's what dear Molly is doing. Doing her very best to deal with it. As you and Bob and Katy have shown your strength to Molly -she is doing her best to show her strength as well. And that's exactly what you want her to do - you've taught her well and she's learned well. I have no doubts that Molly will rise from this, as the Phoenix rose from the ashes - and she will soar. We can't ask any more than that of her.
Go forward, one day at a time. You can't get anywhere in life by constantly looking in the rear view mirror. When you can't be strong - take and hour or two off -it'll be so much better for you and Molly when you return to her side. God Bless you all for who you are and for what you're all doing to help one very special, beautiful spirit named Molly.
06-16-06
Bernadine -
East High School told me to post this on the blog and that you would respond.
The company I work for does an annual service project. We are in the process of selecting this year's service project and I was wondering whether your home is suited to bringing Molly home once she is out of the hospital. I was thinking ramps, possibly bars, etc. I wanted to ask you this before our organizational meeting next week - just in case this sounds like something that you and your family would like to consider.
I do not know whether or not this service project would be accepted, but after reading about all that your family is enduring, I thought I would try. Please respond to me at cschroder@varsitycontractors.com.
Thank you and may God bless and keep your family safe..
Candy Schroder
Hey Molly and Family,
Just a quick note to say how excited I am to hear they had Molly bearing weight on her leg. That's a huge first step. Yay Molly, you go girl!!!
Bernie, in response to your question about Molly trying to be strong, but not knowing whether she really feels that...Molly is finding her own inner strength daily, but she is definitely gaining strength through the love and encouragement from all those around her (and through letters etc.). It'a like a snowball that keeps building as it rolls down the hill. As it gains momentum, she too is gathering new strength everyday. It doesn't matter whether it's real or not, it's what is going to help pull you all through these trying times.
Molly, I saw the piece on news 4 last night and thought it was good. This Swim a-Thon is going to be a HUGE success. I can't wait to meet your teammates and friends. I will do my part to give them all encouragement and hope as well.
Keep up the baby steps. Soon you'll be walking out of the hospital on your own.
Love to you all,
Martha
May your trails be crooked, winding, lonesome, dangerous, leading to the most amazing view. May your mountains rise into and above the clouds.
Edward Abbey
Thinking of you all today - good news is a breath of fresh air.
i heard a song called "beauty from pain"
the chorus goes like this:
"after all this has passed,
i still will remain,
after I've cried my last,
there'll be beauty from pain,
though it wont be today,
someday i'll hope again,
and there'll be beauty from my pain,
you will bring beauty from my pain"
there is a light at the end of this tunnel.
stay strong
love,
a friend
I'm working in Lakewood, looking out my window at the western mountains where a hugh black rainstorm has just passed over us, bringing such relief to our dry lands. And yet all i could think about was how this will delay the swim-a-thon, but just now, the skies are lifting — the blue blue window of clear skies is opening up -even as more cumulus clouds form even further in the distance- and i think how metaphorical for Molly- for the Blooms. Keep looking up! Blue skies and rain…
—another caring and concerned East High Family
Molly,
What a joy it is to see your perseverance and courage as you face the challenges of each moment. Everyday surpassing all
limits and attaining all possibilities.
You have a special family and friends who are meeting the challenges right along with you which is an attribute.
Praying for all of you.
Molly,
"Jimmy" always had such a unique way of relating swimming to life. One of his talks was how important the "team" was to each swimmer. The team was there to support you, cheer you on, and help you in any way. It really wasn't about the "race". Today as I stopped by the Swim-a-Thon, I hope you were able to feel the spirit of a collective "team" through the sunshine and rain. You truly have many that believe in you! Love the Levitt's
My thoughts and prayers are always with you guys, and especially Molly. I'm going to take photos at the Swim-A-Thon today, and my family is sponsering Mary H. Molly is an amazing girl, and I think about her everyday.
-Leah Millis
Molly, Bernie, and Bob,
I want you to know I read your entries daily. My heart aches for all you are going through. Bernie, your daily blogs are a source of inspiration for all of us out there. You are the true definition of MOTHER and that shows daily in your entries. Bob, it was always you who I saw at all of Molly's swim practices and had the chance to really get to know you. Molly is truly blessed to have the two of you as her parents. God really did know what he was doing when he sent you both to Molly. I pray each and every day for all of you. May God give you the strength to perservere in the face of such hardship. We ask ourselves why? No one has the answer. I hope you don't feel alone out there. I hope you feel the strength, love, and support of so many people who are pulling for all of you. I hope the swim a thon goes great. Alyssa had her wisdom teeth out this morning or we'd be there but, I sent my husband over there with a donation.
Love, Prayers, and Support are with you. I think of all of you every day.
Love,
Suzanne Beski
Dear Molly – right now you are dealing with such overwhelming struggles it is hard to take one minute at a time let along imagine what your life will be like a year from now or two or three or four, but in case you sometimes look ahead and feel like the future is very bleak, I want to tell you about my cousin. At 19 she was a freshman in college and like you, she was very bright and very beautiful. She was in an automobile accident that left her so badly injured the doctors did not think she would live and did not treat her injured leg. Gangrene set in so she had to be rushed to a hyperbaric chamber and ultimately had to have her left leg amputated above the knee. Despite all this, she did recover and went on to finish college, get a PhD from Harvard University, marry and raise two beautiful children.
The difficulties you face are not what you expected from life, but you will be amazed at what you can do. You have already accomplished so much. Keep it up.
Love and encouragement
Vickie
Hey Miss Molly-
I really enjoyed visiting with you today. You are such a sweet, sweet girl and you have so much courage. I really admire you. I will definitely be back to see you soon. Maybe next time we can watch a movie together.
luv- Alia
Bob and Bernie,
Just received your note in the mail today! I can't believe you took the time to write a personal note. Thank you so much. It brought tears to my eyes.
Know that the "gals on the blvd" have rallied the troops in Bonnie Brae to send letters, donations, etc. to your family.
Bob, everyone is lost without you! We all miss you and can't wait till you get back! You are beloved and missed and a vital part of our community.
Of course we all understand you have your priorities right where they should be! You belong with your family and know that each and everyone of your "other families" are behind you all 100%.
Don't hesitate to ask for anything that will make your time in the hospital or at home, more comfortable and comforting to your family.
Hugs to you all! You are very special people!
Cheers,
Jayne
Molly Bloom,
You are so wonderful, and I can't wait to see your smile. People who don't even know you have figured out what a fantastic human being you are. And Katy, you are without a doubt one of the most all around amazing people I have ever known. I feel so lucky to be your aunt. It's your parents who I never knew so well. Your mom writes like the best writer I have ever read,and her strength and her heart are like no other, and your dad. Well he has been there for me for as long as I can remember, but reading how they both have made an impact on so many other peoples lives. I feel honored to have you all as my family. Thank you to the 4 of you. Molly I thought about coming out and swimming in the swim-a-thon, but then I thought better of it. Actually I was going to ask Peggy if she would swim with me, and your other aunts too. Our team could have been called the old aunts team.But the important thing to remember is, you have a big family and every one of us loves you so much. And we all are thankful to have the wonderful nieces we do in you and Katy. I'd like to thank you for being the person you are. I lucked out... Try and keep your strength up. Everyone around the world loves you. Frani
Dear Bob
How wonderful to see you yesterday. Thanks so much for taking your precious time to stop by. We miss you so much on your route--it just isn't the same. My five week radiation treatments started yesterday. Know that in those 30 minutes every day I will pray that peace and healing will come to all of you. Know that you are surrounded by love and positive thoughts. Love, Bill, Kathy, Molly & Casey Fortune
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