Saturday,August 26, 2006
The next phase of our new journey began yesterday when Molly was released from the hospital. We took her home for a few hours to visit the cat and just hang out. We are staying at a hotel until the retrofit is finished (hopefully only a week). We spent so much time in these hospitals that we became very attached to all of the health care providers. Our departure from Children's was pretty tearful but joyous at the same time. Molly's cat was thrilled to see her. She has been keeping the workers company and now she is so ready to keep Molly company.
With Molly's newfound freedom comes new realities. The simple things that she has always done are now major projects that have to be choreographed. We no longer have the nurses and therapists there to assist and spoil us. We are learning about the real world now. It is a little daunting and scary, but Molly has already figured out quite a few things on her own. Moving right along.
We want to thank everyone who is helping with the house and getting it ready for Molly. Everyone has been so generous and we are once again blown away by the kindness of strangers and friends.
With Molly's newfound freedom comes new realities. The simple things that she has always done are now major projects that have to be choreographed. We no longer have the nurses and therapists there to assist and spoil us. We are learning about the real world now. It is a little daunting and scary, but Molly has already figured out quite a few things on her own. Moving right along.
We want to thank everyone who is helping with the house and getting it ready for Molly. Everyone has been so generous and we are once again blown away by the kindness of strangers and friends.
posted by Molly's Page at 12:53 PM
57 Comments:
Welcome home (almost) and congratulations!! While there will be times that continue to be daunting, there's certainly no place like home to move on! Each of you are wonderfully adept at tackling challenges with such strength. Sending more best wishes for Molly's continuing recovery!
Molly, It's great to hear you are out of the hospital. Now you can begin your new life and challenges that will come. From what my son says "You will do it!". You are strong and will adjust to these changes. God Bless You and Your Family.
East High Family
What marvelous news! Molly, congratulations for all you have accomplished so far, and all that you will accomplish in the future. You are clearly a strong and determined young woman, and with the support of your obviously terrific family, you will continue to gain strength and learn how to thrive in spite of the obstacles. After all, what's the point of an obstacle if not to climb over it? I'm sure you are anxious to sleep in your own bed and just be in warm and familiar surroundings. Keep us posted on how you're all doing. So many of us, strangers and friends alike, are sending you love and all the best wishes for your continued recovery. Go, Molly, go!
I am so excited for you. I had tears of joy in my eyes as I read your latest blog. I know Molly's recovery will go so much faster now and as soon as she is in the safe and comforting environment of her own home. I pray the renovations on your home are completed quickly so you all may resume your lives. I'm sure Molly will continue to figure things out on her own. Given her spirit and determination she can do anything. Molly, I admire you so much. You have affected my life in a way I cannot explain. I hope you will keep up the blog. It's always to nice to know when God has answered our prayers.
HI MOLLY !!!!!!
All that I can say is...
"YOU ROCK!!"
I want to send you some Rockin' Strenght, so here it goes...
Now, you have to start bobbin your head up and down. Next, get a funky groove on and then stick your arms up and feeeelllll the power.
Ready, set, start rockin'
Here it is.....
ROCKIN' SSTTRREENNGGTTHH....!!!
(Hold for at least 30 seconds)
Did you feel it? Keep up the head bobbin if you like, but if you get a head rush do not blame me. If you start laughing then repeat the above proceedure and "feel the love". Take care Molly.
Sincerly,
Terri Chin
(Ainslie's Aunt)
P.S.
If you ever want to swap hillarious cat stories let me know.
Welcome home! This is by far one of the greatest updates to date on the site! I was so excited to read that you're home again! Congratulations Molly-- You've accomplished so much and I'm sure there's still alot more to face, but you can do it. You can do anything you put your mind to; you are one amazing lady. Keep it up. Sending you and your family lots of hugs and strength to keep doing what you're doing! :)
Congrats on home!
hey molly,
Yeah!!! im so happy that you are home..... you have worked so hard. I know that your going to do such great things with your life. Keep on reaching for the stars. If you need anything i will always be here for you.
Love, Ali Caldwell
Glad to hear you are well almost home but out of the hospital at the very least. I wish you well in all you do. You are truly an inspiration
Molly,
Congratulations!!! As your mom said, you have entered a new stage. You will gradually find your way of adapting routine activities to cut down on time and effort and to resume a more normal schedule. Remember that when you get stuck there are still plenty of resources out there and don't forget to ask for suggestions when you need them. Sometimes it's best to find your way of doing something and sometimes it feels like you're re-inventing the wheel. Best of luck. You will do great and look back soon and marvel at how far you've come.
Denver PT
I'm thrilled for you all! I'm so happy my eyes started to tear up. Look at how much has been accomplished in a short amount of time! This is just fantastic news! And of course it's scary without the assistance of the health care workers, but they know you and Molly can handle this or they wouldn't have discharged her.
Best of luck with everything and thank you so much for the updates. I love to read about Molly's progress and progress she will. No question about that!
Love,
Jaydee
Boston, MA
YAY!
I am so happy you get to go home. I hope you'll keep up your page or your mom will. I know there are lots who have been following your story and hope nothing but the best for you and your family! Have a great End of summer and a Terrific Autum Molly it is the best time of year. laura
Molly & Bloom family - So glad to read your fantastic news. I can't wait to see what your future has in store for you! I am so proud of all you have accomplished! Best wishes for a speedy retrofit - for both your home and your lives!
Congrats Molly. I am sooooo very proud of you. I cannot believe what a strong person you are. Keep up the positive attitude.
East High Teacher
I have been reading the blogs since day one that i heard about it. I am originally from colorado but now in New Mexico. I am so glad that you have gotten this far and am happy you get to be home. all of the blogs have made me cry and think about life in a different way now. My church here has been praying for your family and your recovery. God Bless this new one. Please keep us posted on the recovery I am very curious on how it will go. good luck and CONGRATULATIONS!!
Alicia Hollis
Molly and family,
I was so excited to see you today at the Hospital. I have been following your life so close since you came into our hospital that night in May.
I had tears of joy when I saw all three of you.
Molly, You look 2000 percent better than when I last saw you and your family has lost a lot of the stress that was with them in the first three weeks of your stay with us.
I will continuely follow you and your family's. progress as time moves into the future. You will be challenged. But knowing what you have already hurtled with your grit and determination, I know that you will meet those obstacles and challenges head on.
All my best on getting out of the hospital
George, the X-ray Guy
Molly and family,
Your baby steps have become a huge leap! Congratulations on this milestone. Remember, you still have all the love and support of a wonderful community of angels--all you need to do is ask.
A retired Angel
B&B,
Good evening! Send a hug to sweet Molly.
Melissa and I were reflecting today... I feel like Molly's life is a new piece of canvas in front of you all. Not much paint has been mixed, the brush just barely on the canvas. She has so much ahead of her, so much beauty to be revealed as her new life unfolds. I want to encourage Molly of this as I do the same in trying to help Melissa in the process. Molly is a beautiful young woman, talented, hilarious, bright, a delight.
The masterpiece isn't painted overnight. Sweet Molly, my thoughts are with you. love, D
Wow, wow! I didn't think it was that close! Congratulations. I know it's scary to face the new, but you have each other and you'll get through it together. This is the greatest news!
Wow, wow! I didn't think it was that close! Congratulations. I know it's scary to face the new, but you have each other and you'll get through it together. This is the greatest news!
Wow, wow! I didn't think it was that close! Congratulations. I know it's scary to face the new, but you have each other and you'll get through it together. This is the greatest news!
As you go home and start a new phase of your journey...WOW! I find it hard to write again today as I am so excited for you but do remember how hard it is to get back to normal for lack of a better word! But I am on the other side of it all and I just can't wait to read theblog next month...what will be overwhelming today will be a walk in the park then! What seems to be a pothole today will be a mere bump in the road! What seems to be important will be a mere thought! Breathe! Believe! Love and Prayers! Allegheny Mt.'s Mom!
One day at a time...attack each day with this mantra and the challenge will not be so overwhelming. Today's news is uplifting. I know you will be home soon.
God Bless you
Great news, Molly! How wonderful to finally have a change of scenery. Keep your fighting spirit and don't get discouraged by little setbacks. A few months from now you'll be in your new groove and it will become easier for all of you.
Try to stay positive. It will make a world of difference. It has for us in the face of disability. Life will go on and can be wonderful if you choose to let it.
Go Molly!
MJ Denver
We could not be happier Molly for you and your family to have reached this milestone. This is not another weekend in the hospital - how great is that! You enjoy your new freedom and between all your new challenges remember to plug into the ipod and escape every once in a while. Find yourself again. You've worked really hard to reach this goal - you're due every good thing that's sure to come your way now. Live in the moment and enjoy!
Hello Bob, Bernie, Katy and Molly,
What wonderful news it is that you are where you belong. Molly, you are a true inspiration to so many people. What strength and grit you have to "get er done." I know there is a lot of hard work ahead in rehab but I do know there is nothing you can't handle. Way to go!!
I have to tell you of my Uncle Zebo who is a priest in a town in Wisconsin. The other day the town's Lutheran Pastor and Zebo were standing by the side of the road, pounding in a sign that read: The end is near! Turn yourself around before it's too late! As a car spead past them, the driver yelled, "Leave us alone you religious nuts!" Then from around the curve Zebo and the pastor heard screeching tires and a big splash. The pastor turned to Zebo and said, "Do you think the sign should just say, Bridge Out?"
Stay strong and stay cool.
Denver Bob
Dear Bloom family,
I'm so glad to hear that Molly is on her way back home. Congrats!!! I had recently purchased a card for Molly and it's sitting on the table stamped and ready to go, however, you're no longer at the hospital. While I realize that you probably don't want to be giving your home address out I would still love to send the card to Molly. If there is anyway I could do this still could you please let me know as I spent a great deal of time trying to find the "perfect" card and then even more time trying to decide what to write inside that would put a smile on your face!!!! ;)
Take care,
Sarah
sky2028@hotmail.com
The Bloom Family,
It is WONDERFUL news! To have your baby girl almost home. It has been a long road but the whole family has done an awesome job. Continue the good work you all have done. You all are still in our prayers & thoughts.
A Smokey Hill High School Mom
Dear Molly - So delighted to hear that coming home is only a week or two away. Live it up at the hotel when you can, -- it is great to have someone else to make your bed and do the dishes!
What's next? -- you are back on the road planning for college, no doubt. College is such a great experience -- oh!, the windows of your mind it will open, the new friends you will meet, and the challenge of all that freedom is scary and a rush, all at the same time. I can picture you up at C.U., it is a cool breezy Fall day, you are under the trees, you can hear the wind blowing, and you better get to class! I can hardly wait until we all receive word you are on your way there.
Darling one, the world always steps aside if one knows where one is going. Oh Miss Molly, the world is yours for the taking...
Sending you my love,
An Old East Angel
To Sarah & any others with mail:
Go ahead & send it to the hospital. The mail room will just forward it to the house. Thanks!
(nope, I didn't go away--just haven't had anything to say)
Molly's Aunt Peggy
WAY TO GO MOLLY!!! What a milestone. You have a let of life to live and alot of love to give. You will go on to do great things and show the world your wonderful strength, courage, and beauty. Here's to your life ahead and the next step.
What wonderful news. You have really come a long way. Being home will hopefully help you get better faster.
I'm sure your cat missed you and will be there to listen to you.
Bloom's you inspire us all.
Wanted to let you know that you are being prayed for every time I think of you. I don't read many references to God in your blogs or in the notes from your friends and family. I know you may feel angry at Him right now so please know that I am praying that He will give you strength and peace and that someday when you are ready, you will be able to surrender your lives to His care. For He is "the Way, the Truth, and the Life."
A friend in the south
Wanted to let you know that you are being prayed for every time I think of you. I don't read many references to God in your blogs or in the notes from your friends and family. I know you may feel angry at Him right now so please know that I am praying that He will give you strength and peace and that someday when you are ready, you will be able to surrender your lives to His care. For He is "the Way, the Truth, and the Life."
A friend in the south
Wanted to let you know that you are being prayed for every time I think of you. I don't read many references to God in your blogs or in the notes from your friends and family. I know you may feel angry at Him right now so please know that I am praying that He will give you strength and peace and that someday when you are ready, you will be able to surrender your lives to His care. For He is "the Way, the Truth, and the Life."
A friend in the south
Wanted to let you know that you are being prayed for every time I think of you. I don't read many references to God in your blogs or in the notes from your friends and family. I know you may feel angry at Him right now so please know that I am praying that He will give you strength and peace and that someday when you are ready, you will be able to surrender your lives to His care. For He is "the Way, the Truth, and the Life."
A friend in the south
Wanted to let you know that you are being prayed for every time I think of you. I don't read many references to God in your blogs or in the notes from your friends and family. I know you may feel angry at Him right now so please know that I am praying that He will give you strength and peace and that someday when you are ready, you will be able to surrender your lives to His care. For He is "the Way, the Truth, and the Life."
A friend in the south
Wanted to let you know that you are being prayed for every time I think of you. I don't read many references to God in your blogs or in the notes from your friends and family. I know you may feel angry at Him right now so please know that I am praying that He will give you strength and peace and that someday when you are ready, you will be able to surrender your lives to His care. For He is "the Way, the Truth, and the Life."
A friend in the south
Wanted to let you know that you are being prayed for every time I think of you. I don't read many references to God in your blogs or in the notes from your friends and family. I know you may feel angry at Him right now so please know that I am praying that He will give you strength and peace and that someday when you are ready, you will be able to surrender your lives to His care. For He is "the Way, the Truth, and the Life."
A friend in the south
To the writer above: "I don't read many references to God in your blogs ..."
A respectful alternative to proselytizing here would be start a separate blog for this purpose, or refer those interested to an inspirational website.
The Bloom Family,
It's exciting to see in you the heart of real conquerors. A family who exerts steadiness while going forward embracing all challenges along the way. Coupled with the quality of strength I see a great measure of tenderness one for the other, and for your little furry friend. You are a unique and special family. May your stay at the hotel be a time of rest and refreshment.
Molly and Bloom Family - WELCOME HOME
Welcome home Molly! I have been following your progress ever since I heard about it thru the fundraiser with Jessica Biel. You are a true inspiration to young and old everywhere, those struggling and those who are not. You give those of us real inspiration that with hope, determination, family and the sheer fight to overcome obsticals, you can overcome anything life throws your way. Best of luck to you in the rest of your recovery. The world has so much in store for you. I cannot wait to hear of the continued progress you make. Much love to you and your entire family!
A friend in California!
I'm so happy for all of you that Molly is out of the hospital, what an amazing young woman you have for a daughter she surely takes after her father and mother...I hope the transition will go as smoothly as it can..As always my prayers are with all of you...(((((hugs))))
Molly,
Congratulations on being home! We heard that you were released from the hospital and were so excited for you!
Amanda has not forgotten you. She still asks "Where's Molly?" You made quite the impression on a little 5 year old girl who adores you.
You are a wonderful young lady!
Much love,
Barbara and Amanda (your 5th floor friends!)
Dearest Molly! You go girl! If you continue the way you have you will soon be looking back ...amazed at yourself! We are all amazed with you and your family and we all know including you ...God is good! Your moms entries have been full of faith and love and prayer and motivation...almost every entry has been possitive! I can most definately feel the love and spirituality of this blog! In fact I look forward to logging on every morning! I can't go to work without checking in! For those of us who have been in hell and have come around full circle...we know truthe! I only wish I were as wonderful as you all have been through this! I had some really ugly days when I sat in the hospitol never knowing what the next hour might bring. I never lost my faith but I wasn't always praising God and motivational. It was my son laying in his bed saying"Don't ask God WHY,MOM,ask him what we are to do with what we have been given!"It was my son who said "Don't stop caring MOm!" When I started to let myself go and not do my hair and make-up. So why anyone would even think this blog is not inspirational...you obviously haven't read it all! Read between the lines...and play THUMPER! "If you can't say something nice...don't say anything at all!"Love and Prayers!, Allegheny Mt's Mom
Hey Molly,
I live about as far away from you as possible, in Perth, Western Australia, but your story still inspires us. You got a tiny little article in our daily paper which was actually more concerned with the fact that Jessica Biel was going to lunch with a stranger.
Any way good luck with your recovery and i am sure your outlook on life will remain as positive as always. Best of luck
Molly,
I just want to wish you well. I don't know what your thoughts are, but I'd like to share my thoughts. I posted one other time, and told you about the above the knee amputee that we took into our home and whom I provided full time care for. About his anger and our tears. He was afraid to resume some of the things he was once enjoyed... simple things like going out to eat in a restaurant didn't seem so simple anymore for him, even though I tried to encourage him. It wasn't easy for me, either, having to transfer him because he didn't have enough physical stamina to help much, though he tried. I'd do it all over again if I had to. It took some time, but finally he was able to overcome his fear and apprehension enough to stop focusing on what he couldn't do, but start focusing on what he could do. He even surprised himself the first time he laughed, after his amputation. I myself saw mankind in a new light when we did venture out. People are so kind! They always offered help, even if we didn't need it. At first, we did, because it was a difficult adjustment. I saw the good in people more... not sympathy, but real caring. I braced myself, thinking that someday if I was off guard, there might be that "jerk" who would make a rude comment, or act hastily, like we were an inconvenience or something. But you know what? Not ONCE did that fear become a reality. I was overwhelmed with the goodness in people of all ages, and from all walks of life. As I am sure you will discover, what seems impossible soon becomes a little easier, and with practice and the physical strength that is gained, a routine is learned, and you don't even have to think about how to do something. You just do it. It is learned through a lot of trial and error, but once you discover "how", what a victory! Nothing will be taken for granted again. Molly, I hope that you will not feel sad, angry, or discouraged (at least not for long.) Everyone feels these emotions sometimes, but I experienced them up close with my loved one I cared for, and it's natural when such a physical change such as yours and his has taken place. But just remember that you are capable to overcome challenges, and you can attain your goals. Your life has changed, yes. It takes time to adapt, but your life is still worth living. I wish you the best. Stay strong, and be happy. You can do it. Thinking of you with love and prayers.
A friend.
Oh my, moving from a hospital to a hotel must have been rough. I have a handicapped accesible house in North Cherry Creek, equipped with Ramp, roll in shower, etc. we would be glad to host you for a week or two. I am sure we know some of the same families as I had a stepson at East and my own son is at Mullen. If you are interested and need a place for a few weeks, we could host you all. My house can sometimes get noisy with teenagers and I am not sure how much rest Molly needs, but we could figure something out.
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Hi Molly! I was given this blog site the other day by a woman that I work with. Her husband works for a bathroom company that is doing some work on your house...
As a new mom to a little girl myself, I was brought to tears when I read your mom's entries. I just want to say that you are truly blessed to have such a strong close-knit family. It's amazing how GOD can turn a tragedy into something truly amazing. I feel, reading your story that he has done just that with your family. I hope you all the best in your journey of recovery. Keep your head up and your focus strong and you will go far!
XOXO~
Holly Collins
Oh my, I didn't mean to offend anyone about the God comment in the blogs. And I certainly didn't mean for it to copy 7 times. That was a mistake. Not sure how that happened. They don't need to feel that anyone is belittling them at such a difficult time. They just need our love and prayers. I didn't mean they weren't spiritual people. Anger is a natural stage of grief. I have been following the blogs of some other families with tragedies. They too have struggled with difficulties along the way. Readers may find some inspiration at these sights that would give insight on how to pray and support those around us in dire need. www.prayforbj.blogspot.com and www.whitneycerak.blogspot.com.
Thank you to each of you for being so loving and genuinely concerned for such a wonderful family in need.
Trying to stay dry from the impending hurricane!
A southern friend
It is an honor to pray for you and lift you up with love and support. We hope that your newly improved home is everything and more that you need it to be. You deserve it! May you know that millions truly care!
In reply to southern friend-
I, for one, did not take offense to your message. I received it as you intended. Apparantly some took it the wrong way, so thanks for clearing it up. Of course all readers want the same for Molly, and that is for her to continue doing better. Hope your area comes through this hurricane season undamaged and standing strong.
Dearest Bloom Family! Good morning! Wow! I am never ceased to be amazed! People are wonderful! I am constantly told I am a "Pollyanna" and I use to defend that...well not anymore! I find it easy to find the good in people because there is good in everyone! I live in a very small community...Less than 5000 people in a ten mile radius. It is a quaint little town and we call it a village..."It takes a village to raise a child!" Think that is why we call it that! We do raise awesome kids! But we have had a little scare this week.A 44 year old man on the run from the law is loose and believed to be hiding out around here. Cutting to the chase...yesterdays paper said his daughter has been arrested and her children taken from her for supposedly hiding her dad at her home...now here comes the punch line...Me,Miss Pollyanna that I am said"Its her dad for crying out loud...maybe she was scared or maybe she had to because her heart was stronger than her brain. Sure it was wrong but we don't know the facts.Sure she was wrong but...question her and etc. but those children have been through a lot already." Now we know the fruit doesn't fall from the tree...My daughter came home from school and she has been very afraid since this guy has been hiding out(We are not use to this in our small town) But she looked at me and with all seriousness said"Mom its her dad...what was she to do...we don't know the facts! The poor thing! Oh those poor kids! They need their mom, what are they thinking! " Like mother like daughter! Guess I am sharing this with you because of a lot of reasons! My family has endured a lot too! But no matter what...we stand firm and believe there is more good than bad! Some days I must admit I reach real hard to find motivation but by the end of the day I say my prayers and there is always something beautiful to thank GOD for! One thing I thanked him for last night was your Mom. Her entries have given me permission to feel pain and anger and then to let it go and feel the beauty of others that are truely beautiful! The other entries have really made me see people don't always say what they mean or maybe we misunderstand their words! I expect forgiveness on a daily basis...maybe that is why I give it so freely@ Please forgive me for anything that I may have said wrong! You are all in my thoughts and prayers and thanksgiving! May GOd continue to bless us all! Love,Allegheny's Mt. Mom
So thankful to be able to pray for you today.
Well it has been a week and just wondering where you are...Hopefully everything is going as you plan. As you go through all that you do please remember you are in many homes and at many kitchen tables as we pray for all of you and learn from you all! Still haven't caught that man that is running from the law...he is now considered armed and very dangerous. Feeling cautious in a safe environment is a scary thing! We just never know for sure ...do we? So as I pray for you and your recovery I shall also pray for this mans family and for all my neighbors and friends that we stay safe. I also pray for my family that all our new trials are simple to get through.Love and prayers! Allegheny Mt.'s Mom
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