Sunday, July 9, 2006
Another Saturday night in the hospital. 8 weeks ago Molly died a couple of times. She had to be resucitated (sp?) more than once during the first surgery. Today she is alive, healing, and trying to figure out how to get through the pain long enough to put her life back together. We will be doing a lot of crying and yelling. Because she has some scary bacteria, she is still confined to her room for a while. But, she actually got to put on clothes for the first time yesterday. I think that helped raise her spirits a little. She is pretty down. We made a connection yesterday that we never had before. I think she trusts me a little more. Girls and their moms. I was 18 when I finally realized that my mom was the best and that she actually knew stuff. I am so glad that I figured that out relatively early in my life. When I grow up I want to be just like my mom and Molly and Katy.
posted by Molly's Page at 9:33 AM
22 Comments:
Wow Molly- 8 weeks. I can't even believe the progress you have made! We are all so pround and amazed and happy and in love with you. What an inspiration! In those dark and scary days right after prom we kept saying to each other how strong you were are brave you were and how you were going to be fine- and look! You have surpassed and exceeded eveyones expectations- holy guacamole i really can put into words your amazingness! Way to go! I'll be in soon. Love you so much,
James
Hello Bob, Bernie, Katy, and Molly, I guess there will be a few down times as the healing goes on. Bernie, Molly and Katy are very lucky to have you as their mom. Keep doing what your doing. God is with you.
I have to tell you I took my youngest son to a group therapy session. There were four dads with there kids. The psychiatrist said we all had obsessions. He told the first dad he was obsessed with eating. That's why he named his daughter candy.
He told the second dad he was obsessed with money. That's why he named his daughter Penny.
He told the third dad he was obsessed with alcohol. That's why he named his daughter Brandy. At this point I grabbed my son and said, "Come on Dick, it's time to go home".
Stay strong and stay cool.
Denver Bob
just checking back....Please tell Molly we are all thinking of her and it will be a hard raod but clearly she is cappable (sp?) with all the crazy things happening in this world You guys are an inspiration. Molly you are beautiful.
Hi Molly! I wonder if you're actually getting to read all of these messages by now. You are absolutely incredible! I know you probably think you're just doing what you're doing, but you have no idea how many people couldn't even begin to handle doing what you're doing. I can't believe you've come so far so fast. I am just so happy for you that you can actually begin to get on with your life now. I havn't even been able to imagine what your parents have been going through. My mind just won't let me go there for more than a fraction of a second. The absolute most important thing to any parent is complete and utter happiness and good health for their children. I'm so happy for all of you that you are on your way. Whenever you're ready for that haircut we talked about, you just let me know. ON ME! I'll be more than happy to come to you. Have tools, will travel. Keep up the amazing work! Love, Cecily
Hi, again,
I found your originally because of reporting on TV in Denver. We travel full-time, but we have a Denver feed on our dish. I have been following the news of Molly's accident since it occurred, but I didn't hear about the blog until a few days ago.
I've shared the site, and Molly's birthday coming up, with several hundred online quilting friends. A lot of them have come to read your story, starting back at the very beginning of the blog. Over and over I hear them say how strong you all are, spiritually and otherwise.
Molly, your story is amazing. I have no doubt that it will be a beacon of hope, partly thanks to the blog documentation by your mom, for many young people in the coming years. If there is one thought to hold to you as you recover, maybe it is that you are recovering for yourself, and for lots of others who will need your example.
I have every confidence that you will figure out how to handle the changes this brings to your life, as you have handled the injuries - with a whole gamut of emotions, but moving forward.
Best wishes to you.
Dear Bloom Family,
Can I tell you how amazing all of you are, you are all so lucky to have each other to lean on and to give space when needed. I have been fighting cancer for five years and it has been a long and hard battle and I still have hard days to come..Molly, I want you to know what an inspiration you have become to me. When I think I am having a bad day, I think of you and I know that what I am going thru is nothing compared to you..I hope all of you know that the Lord our Saviour is there for you, all you need to do is call on him and he will be there. Molly you are a fighter, you wouldn't be here with us other wise. It's okay for you to be mad and it's okay to cry. If I can share with you two things that have helped me is journaling and leaning on my family and friends which has been a hard thing to do because I was always taking care of everyone, it's hard to ask for help but it does get easier the more you ask...
Hugs and God Bless,
Tina
Molly, you may have died a few times but you were reborn with with more courage and strength than most. I am so happy to hear of your progress and completely in awe that you have weathered the rough patches so beautifully.
Dear Molly and Family:
Hospitals really are capable of amazing things ...
I am a middle-aged mom now (47), but at age 19 I got stiff, sore and very tired and was diagnosed with rheumatoid arthritis.
It took me a little while to grieve the loss of the old me (ski team, dance, and piano), and discover and understand the new me.
Skiing competetively or taking dance classes was probably over, but there were different things I would discover and learn to do.
My doctor said I could still ski recreationally (not competitively) for a half-day. I could still play the piano for brief periods. I could do art (I eventually graduated with a B.F.A. and did graphic design/advertising art).
My mom was once jump-started back to life -- it was difficult for me to watch. She didn't remember it, however. Soon afterwards, she was cracking jokes.
Sincerely,
Leigh
I cried when I read your entry Bernie and then I read the comments. I have to say that Denver Bob always makes me start breathing normal again and then I laugh at his jokes. I almost forget for a second about the emotion that I was just experiencing.
You are in my thoughts Molly and in my prayers as you face the days ahead.
I hope the week is kind to you.
It sure is good to see you on the mend Molly. I just got out of the hospital so's thats why I havent posted fer a bit.Hang in there Molly, you can do it.There will be days but you just have to keep on keeping on.I have a below the knee and it took some time but it got better as time went on.Im pulling for you Molly...Peace.
Hi Molly!
Just checked your blog from Finland and am so excited to hear how well you seem to be doing. Your determination continues to amaze me. Keep your chin up!
Al
Hi Katy, Bob & Bernie too!
Bernie,
Indeed, as I mentioned the other day, mothers and daughters have something special that no one can ever compete with. Only mothers are capable of making us feel like there is nothing wrong with us and that we are perfect....no matter how others try, no one can do it like a mama!
Congratulations to you both on the connection and as always congratulations to Molly for her strength and perserverance.
All the love in the world.
Joni
I've been following this story with the ambition that Molly is going to pull out of this just great because of her attitude and the support around her. I am an amputee and work with several new amputees that could use a little encouragement. I know she is in good hands but I would love to offer my services and support to help her get further along in the understanding of what she can anticipate her new life endurances. Having a new disability at her age is devastating and any encouragement I can offer to her just by sitting down and talking about whats yet to come in her life, I would appreciate the opportunity. I have been an amputee for most of my life and am surely qualified to answer any questions she may have if she is up to it. If gives me great gratification to help both the young and old and add a perspective that will allow her to better understand what she has to expect in the road to come. I am very motivational and would be honored given the chance to stop by and say hello. JR Rosenau, jrros@msn.com, 720.244.1106
Dear Molly, Katy and Bernie ~
When I grow up I want to be just like you (I'm 53 and it's never to late!)
... and Bob, I'm guessing you are quite amazing,too, but I'm a female and never want to be a guy. So, .. hey!
Maryland is praying for you too!
Hey Molly,
Glad to hear you are doing better. Your stay at St. Lukes was short. I think your stay at childrens will be even shorter. Stay strong and don't be afraid to be the teenager you really are.
Dean says "Hi" and he can't wait to come and see you again. You and Michael are his two favorite cousins. I haven't figured that one out yet - Must be your gentle souls:-)
Love Ya,
Sarah
God bless you Molly,
Hello Bloom Family!
Over the weekend I watched an amazing movie and thought about Molly. It is called Men of Honor and it is the story of Navy diver Carl Brashear. I don't want to give the (true) story away but I would urge you to view it.
Molly,
"If one advances confidently in the direction of his dreams, and endeavors to live the life which he has imagined, he will meet with a success unexpected in common hours." Thoreau
You will meet with a success Molly - you are on your way...
happy birthday, molly.
you must be very busy with rehab. i hope it is going well!
Happy Birthday Molly. You should get a purple heart for your courage on your birthday. You are the bravest and strongest 18 year old I have ever heard about. Happy birthday and many more to come.
happy birthday! you hadn't spend much time wearing a lot of clothes 18 years ago, either.
glazing ceramics soundd like a great way to pass the time.
hope you and katy have a great night together. some of my fondest memory with my sisters are lying in bed and talking for hours.
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